Change the Quality of your Thinking!

Corina Alexandra Lazar
Apr 26, 2017
3 min read

You owe yourself quality thinking, quality people around you and a strong mindset to set some limits. I found myself yesterday doing a 12k power walk, followed by 30 minutes jog, speed intervals paired with jumping squats, plank and abs series workout. You can imagine I wasn’t even able to turn around in bed last night as every inch of my body was stiffed after the anger training. And I do train almost daily. But yesterday, I’ve delivered a “let that anger out” training. I guess you can call it like that if you scream and curse all the way through it. But yet, you don’t feel the physical pain since you’re too focused to let the anger burst out. Probably I was noticed by some people in the park training and swearing mad but at that point I gave zero F..ks.

I must admit I feel much lighter today. Yes, my body still hurts but my soul feels better. Because, my friends, I am not taking shit anymore from anybody. I am the positive, smiling face of every group I’ve been into, but I’m also realistic, straight-forward and true to myself. And I've worked hard to get in this point. So if you’re phoney with me, taking me for granted and barely making time to properly chat-small talk while you’re shopping doesn’t count-then I’m out. I choose quality over quantity. I need you to be 100% in that conversation when it happens.I need you to ask me a simple question when we talk: HOW ARE YOU? Remember that guys? Good old manners, before we all started talking only about ourselves?! I need you to be there for me when I go through shit. Because behind the “perfect illustrated” social media pictures we all have REAL LIFES. And sometimes real life sucks! And that’s when you need your people around. But how would you know? I keep hearing it everywhere… people let down by their families and friends due to the lack of time. Really? Are you really that busy? Because I have BIG news for you, WE ALL ARE! We all have projects, careers, families, hobbies, challenges to focus on. But if you want people to be there for you, you must be there for them. If you shit on my feelings and my trust…then I guess... I’ll have to change something. You wouldn’t allow anybody aggressing or ignoring a child, right? You think is too much of an analogy? Well is not. Your soul matters! Why allowing people shitting on you? Your own soul is precious. Your soul is a “child” itself.

You know what’s worse? Receiving pity advise from the very people that let you down. I might take it guys and start directly with you. LOL!

Anyway, from time to time even your Close Circle needs a good old Spring cleaning, some people might prove yourself that you weren’t that wrong about giving them your love, trust and time. A total Win-Win, plus a lesson learned. For the rest that don’t make the effort…BUG OFF! It’s not that I don’t own the capacity to face life’s challenges, on a contrary! I am sick though, of finding excuses for everybody. I am sick of being upset and disappointed. I was blessed with a loving and supportive family and I have built for myself the Life that I wanted, so far. I choose LOVE and RECIPROCITY! Because I have a lot to offer and when I do I’m fully IN. I choose to stay true to myself. I choose ME. These are my values…take it or leave it! Sparkle up, kids and don’t let anybody tell you different! by Corina Alexandra